Friday 30 October 2009

BACKSTREET TO YOUR PARENT IS NOT RELATIONSHIP

BACKSTREET TO YOUR PARENT IS NOT RELATIONSHIP


I personally think that parents have nothing to do with their child’s love life. I disagree since dating is one of adolescent’s life experiences that can help teenagers grow up. That means parents don’t have to involve their self to it.

Our boy/girl friends don’t need to be as perfect as our parents want to be if it’s just a regular dating, it's a different thing if he/she is going to be our ‘future husband/wife’, because I think when you love someone deeply, and your lover truly love you back, then she/he will do anything until our parents approve to our relationships. If our parents see how serious we are, they will at least let you keep the relationship with our boy/girl friend and as time pass by they will accept our relationship with our boy/girl friend, since all parents want their children live in lovey dovey love life, right?

Wednesday 28 October 2009

POLYGAMY IS GOOD CHOICE FOR EVERYONE

POLYGAMY IS GOOD CHOICE FOR EVERYONE


Polygamy is NOT good choice for anyone. Of course there’s no normal woman want to be betrayed by her husband. What ever the reason, polygamy isn’t good for the one who did it or the one who related, since polygamy can make your marriage not harmonious. Especially the wife doesn’t want to share the love of her husband to another woman, because polygamy can be done if the husband gets agreement from his wife. Even if the husband has gotten permission from his wife still there’s another problem. The husband has to be fair to his wives, because if not it will disturb the stability of your marriage. Besides most of Indonesian man are not fair husbands, they easy to get attracted by good women (even if they already have a wife). So I think, polygamy isn’t good for anyone, especially for Indonesian.